Friday, November 7, 2008

Toasts and Dancing

First and foremost, I love how much I'm thinking about things that no one will care about.

Now, I don't know how my Brother or his Sister feel about Public speaking; so that topic will be brought up over Thanksgiving or Christmas. But, if neither of them want to speak in front of 200ish people; many of whom they will not know... then what? Can we just for-go a toast all together? Do I ask our Fathers to say something? What if they don't want to speak in front of 200ish people?

I know that I have 10 months to figure this out. It's just something that wobbles around in my brain.

And I know that Matt and I will have our first dance. But I'm not so keen on the whole Bridal Party dance. Especially since there will only be 2 other people out there. I mean honestly, what's the point in that anyways? I'd rather just get on with the fun and ridiculousness of the party.

3 comments:

Erica said...

No toasts is AOK. Likewise with the bridal party dance. Now, if one of you (OK, I know which one it would be...) got up and thanked everyone for coming in place of a toast, that might be nice.

salamanda76 said...

We didn't have a bridal party dance. We also combined our father/daughter and mother/son dance into one.

Unknown said...

We didn't have a bridal party dance.

Also, no, they don't NEED to talk, and you can always have a backup (someone in the wings w/a speech ready just in case) that isn't in the bridal part, but still a close friend or relative.